{"id":90,"date":"2008-11-11T00:03:38","date_gmt":"2008-11-10T22:03:38","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blogs.avui.cat\/jaumepubill\/2008\/11\/11\/avui-ha-mort-un-amic\/"},"modified":"2009-04-07T14:10:49","modified_gmt":"2009-04-07T13:10:49","slug":"avui-ha-mort-un-amic","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blogs.avui.cat\/jaumepubill\/2008\/11\/11\/avui-ha-mort-un-amic\/","title":{"rendered":"Avui ha mort un amic."},"content":{"rendered":"

Cada dia es mor molta gent per\u00f2, com que no la coneixem o ens queda llunyana, no en fem gaire cas.<\/h4>\n

Per\u00f2 quan ens toca d’a prop la mort, llavors sembla que la nostra actitud canvia i sempre ens fa pensar. A vegades fins i tot ens fa canviar la nostra visi\u00f3 de la vida.<\/h4>\n

El meu amic ha mort aquesta matinada de c\u00e0ncer. I us vull compartir unes paraules que un dia em deia en veu baixa -quasi inaudible- , despr\u00e9s de molts dies de malaltia i de dolor. Em sembla que les havia escrit alg\u00fa altre, per\u00f2 ell se les havia fet seves:<\/h4>\n

“Si tens c\u00e0ncer poden passar dues coses i les dues s\u00f3n bones: si et guanya, t’allibera del cos que cada cop es torna m\u00e9s molest (tinc gana, tinc fred, tinc son, tinc ganes o desgana, tinc ra\u00f3, tinc dubtes)… i si el guanyes, ser\u00e0s m\u00e9s humil, m\u00e9s agra\u00eft…. per tant, f\u00e0cilment feli\u00e7, lliure del gran pes de la culpa, de la responsabilitat i de la vanitat, disposat a viure cada instant profundament, com ha de ser”.Aquestes paraules em van fer pensar una bona estona. I fruit d’elles, va n\u00e9ixer aquest poema que li dedico a ell.<\/p>\n

<\/h4>\n

\u00a0PARADA I FONDA<\/h4>\n

Ha arribat el moment<\/h4>\n

de fer parada i fonda.<\/h4>\n

<\/h4>\n

Mirar-se de dalt a baix<\/h4>\n

davant del mirall<\/h4>\n

per fora.<\/h4>\n

I mirar-se una bona estona per dins<\/h4>\n

amb els ulls ben oberts,<\/h4>\n

sense mentides<\/h4>\n

i sense enganys.<\/h4>\n

<\/h4>\n

Cal posar un mirall<\/h4>\n

darrere l’espatlla<\/h4>\n

per veure b\u00e9 qu\u00e8 arrosseguem,<\/h4>\n

quines coses la vida ens ha anat carregant.<\/h4>\n

Ens caldr\u00e0 veure qu\u00e8 ens sobra<\/h4>\n

i qu\u00e8 ens falta.<\/h4>\n

<\/h4>\n

I potser caldr\u00e0 descarregar,<\/h4>\n

o potser comen\u00e7ar a carregar,<\/h4>\n

ves a saber!<\/h4>\n

<\/h4>\n

Potser caldr\u00e0 canviar de jaqueta<\/h4>\n

-en el bon sentit de la paraula-<\/h4>\n

i veure si no hem canviat de jaqueta<\/h4>\n

-en el mal sentit de la paraula.<\/h4>\n

<\/h4>\n

<\/h4>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Cada dia es mor molta gent per\u00f2, com que no la coneixem o ens queda llunyana, no en fem gaire cas. Per\u00f2 quan ens toca d’a prop la mort, llavors sembla que la nostra actitud canvia i sempre ens fa pensar. A vegades fins i tot ens fa canviar la nostra visi\u00f3 de la vida. […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":214,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":false,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2}},"categories":[2941],"tags":[31912],"class_list":["post-90","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-vida-i-mort","tag-vida-i-mort"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/pagkjs-1s","jetpack-related-posts":[],"jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/blogs.avui.cat\/jaumepubill\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/90","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/blogs.avui.cat\/jaumepubill\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/blogs.avui.cat\/jaumepubill\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blogs.avui.cat\/jaumepubill\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/214"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blogs.avui.cat\/jaumepubill\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=90"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/blogs.avui.cat\/jaumepubill\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/90\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/blogs.avui.cat\/jaumepubill\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=90"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blogs.avui.cat\/jaumepubill\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=90"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blogs.avui.cat\/jaumepubill\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=90"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}