{"id":7265,"date":"2021-09-03T10:41:16","date_gmt":"2021-09-03T09:41:16","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/blogs.avui.cat\/jaumepubill\/?p=7265"},"modified":"2021-09-03T10:43:31","modified_gmt":"2021-09-03T09:43:31","slug":"xantatges","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blogs.avui.cat\/jaumepubill\/2021\/09\/03\/xantatges\/","title":{"rendered":"XANTATGES"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone \" src=\"https:\/\/i1.wp.com\/www.viviendoencasa.mx\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/%C2%BFCo%CC%81mo-educar-a-tus-hijos-sin-chantajes-3-claves-infalibles.jpg?w=1280&amp;ssl=1\" width=\"386\" height=\"217\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: Courier New, monospace\">Ens <\/span><span style=\"font-family: Courier New, monospace\">volen acostumar<\/span><span style=\"font-family: Courier New, monospace\"> a viure sota xantatge <\/span><span style=\"font-family: Courier New, monospace\">a base de formes diverses. A vegades fan servir formes molt subtils; altres vegades molt clares, evidents, <\/span><span style=\"font-family: Courier New, monospace\">directes<\/span><span style=\"font-family: Courier New, monospace\"> i sense cap mena de vergonya<\/span><span style=\"font-family: Courier New, monospace\">. <\/span><span style=\"font-family: Courier New, monospace\">En algun<\/span><span style=\"font-family: Courier New, monospace\">es ocasions<\/span><span style=\"font-family: Courier New, monospace\"> fan servir <\/span><span style=\"font-family: Courier New, monospace\">directament <\/span><span style=\"font-family: Courier New, monospace\">la por <\/span><span style=\"font-family: Courier New, monospace\">i l\u2019amena\u00e7a<\/span><span style=\"font-family: Courier New, monospace\">. En altres ocasions la culpa, el sentit del deure o altres formes. <\/span><span style=\"font-family: Courier New, monospace\">Sigui com sigui, \u00e9s un ab\u00fas i un xantatge <\/span><span style=\"font-family: Courier New, monospace\">el que ens fan <\/span><span style=\"font-family: Courier New, monospace\">certes persones o institucions<\/span><span style=\"font-family: Courier New, monospace\">.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: Courier New, monospace\">Els xantatges s\u00f3n molt t\u00edpics de les<\/span><span style=\"font-family: Courier New, monospace\"> religions &#8211;<\/span><span style=\"font-family: Courier New, monospace\">o m\u00e9s ben dit, <\/span><span style=\"font-family: Courier New, monospace\">d\u2019alguns dirigents<\/span><span style=\"font-family: Courier New, monospace\"> d\u2019aquestes religions-, <\/span><span style=\"font-family: Courier New, monospace\">que fan creure als seus fidels que han de seguir al peu de la lletra el que ells diuen <\/span><span style=\"font-family: Courier New, monospace\">i <\/span><span style=\"font-family: Courier New, monospace\">que no poden<\/span><span style=\"font-family: Courier New, monospace\"> sortir <\/span><span style=\"font-family: Courier New, monospace\">ni un mil\u00b7l\u00edmetre <\/span><span style=\"font-family: Courier New, monospace\">del solc<\/span><span style=\"font-family: Courier New, monospace\">. Els infantilitzen i els presenten una imatge molt deformada de D\u00e9u. <\/span><span style=\"font-family: Courier New, monospace\">Ja ens ho <\/span><span style=\"font-family: Courier New, monospace\">advertia<\/span><span style=\"font-family: Courier New, monospace\"> el te\u00f2leg <\/span><span style=\"font-family: Courier New, monospace\"><b>Gonz\u00e0lez-Ruiz,<\/b><\/span><span style=\"font-family: Courier New, monospace\"> als anys 70, en el seu llibre <\/span><span style=\"font-family: Courier New, monospace\"><i><b>\u00abDios es gratuito, per\u00f2 no sup\u00e9rfluo\u00bb: <\/b><\/i><\/span><span style=\"font-family: Courier New, monospace\"><i>\u00ab<\/i><\/span><span style=\"font-family: Courier New, monospace\"><i>Cuando Dios muere en una sociedad, de su cad\u00e1ver salen dioses alienantes. Pero el \u00fanico Dios vivo es el Dios de Jesucristo. Un Dios en lucha radical contra los dioses. Cuya presencia no es una explicaci\u00f3n sino una salvaci\u00f3n. Un Dios que no se impone, sino que se entrega. Un Dios gratuito, per\u00f2 no sup\u00e9rfluo, liquidador de la alienaci\u00f3n religiosa\u00bb.<\/i><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: Courier New, monospace\"><i>A<\/i><\/span><span style=\"font-family: Courier New, monospace\">lguns dirigents han ensenyat un D\u00e9u fals i una manera perversa d\u2019entendre\u2019l i d\u2019adre\u00e7ar-s\u2019hi.<\/span> <span style=\"font-family: Courier New, monospace\">Converteixen les seves preg\u00e0ries so<\/span><span style=\"font-family: Courier New, monospace\">vint en un intercanvi comercial: &#8220;Si el meu fill troba feina, <\/span><span style=\"font-family: Courier New, monospace\">pujar\u00e9 a Montserrat a posar un ciri a la Moreneta&#8221;,<\/span><span style=\"font-family: Courier New, monospace\"> &#8220;Si em curo d<\/span><span style=\"font-family: Courier New, monospace\">el<\/span><span style=\"font-family: Courier New, monospace\"> c\u00e0ncer, dormir\u00e9 a terra dues vegades per setmana&#8221;. I aix\u00ed la religi\u00f3 es prostitueix reduint-se a un comer\u00e7 entre una divinitat i l\u2019\u00e9sser hum\u00e0. <\/span><span style=\"font-family: Courier New, monospace\">Sovint hem vist que alguns<\/span><span style=\"font-family: Courier New, monospace\"> representants d&#8217;aquestes religions <\/span><span style=\"font-family: Courier New, monospace\">(no tots, sortosament) <\/span><span style=\"font-family: Courier New, monospace\">fomenten aquesta faceta de grans magatzems en rebaixes, donant a entendre que els d\u00e9us satisfan la seva divinitat amb el sofriment hum\u00e0. <\/span><span style=\"font-family: Courier New, monospace\">Com aquells d\u00e9us antics que feien<\/span><span style=\"font-family: Courier New, monospace\"> un <\/span><span style=\"font-family: Courier New, monospace\">gran<\/span><span style=\"font-family: Courier New, monospace\"> fest\u00ed de sang <\/span><span style=\"font-family: Courier New, monospace\">perqu\u00e8 els aportava<\/span><span style=\"font-family: Courier New, monospace\"> plaer <\/span><span style=\"font-family: Courier New, monospace\">i poder. En totes les religions hi ha<\/span><span style=\"font-family: Courier New, monospace\"> certs dies <\/span><span style=\"font-family: Courier New, monospace\">o certes coses <\/span><span style=\"font-family: Courier New, monospace\">de re<\/span><span style=\"font-family: Courier New, monospace\">baixes. <\/span><span style=\"font-family: Courier New, monospace\">En aquestes ocasions<\/span><span style=\"font-family: Courier New, monospace\"> \u00e9s m\u00e9s f\u00e0cil obtenir els favors <\/span><span style=\"font-family: Courier New, monospace\">dels d\u00e9us <\/span><span style=\"font-family: Courier New, monospace\">a un preu m\u00e9s barat. S\u00f3n intercanvis plens de xantatges. <\/span><span style=\"font-family: Courier New, monospace\">I segurament que tots hi hem caigut en aquest parany alguna vegada i no sempre n\u2019hem sortit satisfets. Talment com a les rebaixes, que no sempre en sortim satisfets dels resultats. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: Courier New, monospace\">Els pol\u00edtics han copiat les religions.<\/span>\u00a0<span style=\"font-family: Courier New, monospace\">Ja durant la campanya electoral prometen l\u2019&#8221;oro i el moro&#8221; i ens diuen que tot far\u00e0 baixada i tots navegarem amb el vent en popa. Despr\u00e9s, d<\/span><span style=\"font-family: Courier New, monospace\">urant la legislatura, el partit de torn -amb el seu president al capdavant- <\/span><span style=\"font-family: Courier New, monospace\">governa el pa\u00eds amb uns criteris que a vegades no fan m\u00e9s que<\/span> <span style=\"font-family: Courier New, monospace\">conduir-los<\/span><span style=\"font-family: Courier New, monospace\"> a la mis\u00e8ria. &#8220;No hi havia una altra alternativa&#8221;, <\/span><span style=\"font-family: Courier New, monospace\">diuen com a excusa de mal pagador. Despr\u00e9s se sap que el que han fet <\/span><span style=\"font-family: Courier New, monospace\">ha estat nom\u00e9s fer els rics m\u00e9s rics a costa de fer els pobres m\u00e9s pobres.<\/span> <span style=\"font-family: Courier New, monospace\">S\u2019obliden r\u00e0pidament<\/span><span style=\"font-family: Courier New, monospace\"> de les seves promeses i d\u2019aquell<\/span><span style=\"font-family: Courier New, monospace\"> ung\u00fcent meravell\u00f3s que <\/span><span style=\"font-family: Courier New, monospace\">ho cura tot (<\/span><span style=\"font-family: Courier New, monospace\">cura els dependents mitjan\u00e7ant un xec d&#8217;ajuda; assegur<\/span><span style=\"font-family: Courier New, monospace\">en<\/span><span style=\"font-family: Courier New, monospace\"> que <\/span><span style=\"font-family: Courier New, monospace\">abaixaran<\/span><span style=\"font-family: Courier New, monospace\"> els impostos; que tindr<\/span><span style=\"font-family: Courier New, monospace\">an<\/span><span style=\"font-family: Courier New, monospace\"> cura a les dones maltractades; que acabar<\/span><span style=\"font-family: Courier New, monospace\">an<\/span> <span style=\"font-family: Courier New, monospace\">amb <\/span><span style=\"font-family: Courier New, monospace\">la fam i els desnonaments; <\/span><span style=\"font-family: Courier New, monospace\">que<\/span><span style=\"font-family: Courier New, monospace\"> es crearan centenars de milers de llocs de treball; <\/span><span style=\"font-family: Courier New, monospace\">que si<\/span><span style=\"font-family: Courier New, monospace\"> els aturats, els joves, l&#8217;educaci\u00f3, la sanitat&#8230;<\/span><span style=\"font-family: Courier New, monospace\">). Promeses. Tot promeses.<\/span><span style=\"font-family: Courier New, monospace\"> Per\u00f2 <\/span><span style=\"font-family: Courier New, monospace\">abans caldr\u00e0 sotmetre\u2019s al <\/span><span style=\"font-family: Courier New, monospace\">xantatge: \u00abEt don<\/span><span style=\"font-family: Courier New, monospace\">ar\u00e9 <\/span><span style=\"font-family: Courier New, monospace\">tot aix\u00f2 sempre que em votis <\/span><span style=\"font-family: Courier New, monospace\">a mi\u00bb<\/span><span style=\"font-family: Courier New, monospace\">.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: Courier New, monospace\">I com les religions i els pol\u00edtics, trobem<\/span><span style=\"font-family: Courier New, monospace\"> altres grups, empreses, bancs, <\/span><span style=\"font-family: Courier New, monospace\">persones<\/span><span style=\"font-family: Courier New, monospace\">&#8230; que tamb\u00e9 intenten fer-nos xantatge. Cadasc\u00fa a la seva manera. No haur\u00edem de caure en aquest parany i fer l\u2019esfor\u00e7 de distingir entre uns i altres. No hem de caure en el t\u00f2pic que \u00abt<\/span><span style=\"font-family: Courier New, monospace\">ots s\u00f3n iguals, tots <\/span><span style=\"font-family: Courier New, monospace\">roben<\/span><span style=\"font-family: Courier New, monospace\">, tots busquen el poder per endollar <\/span><span style=\"font-family: Courier New, monospace\">la seva sortida<\/span><span style=\"font-family: Courier New, monospace\"> a Telef<\/span><span style=\"font-family: Courier New, monospace\">\u00f2<\/span><span style=\"font-family: Courier New, monospace\">nica o Endesa. <\/span><span style=\"font-family: Courier New, monospace\">Ja no<\/span><span style=\"font-family: Courier New, monospace\"> queda ning\u00fa <\/span><span style=\"font-family: Courier New, monospace\">que sigui <\/span><span style=\"font-family: Courier New, monospace\">honrat\u00bb. Els d\u00e9us exerceixen el xantatge m\u00e9s destructor. Els pol\u00edtics el xantatge m\u00e9s evident. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: Courier New, monospace\">Us<\/span><span style=\"font-family: Courier New, monospace\"> asseguro que jo <\/span><span style=\"font-family: Courier New, monospace\">cada cop miro m\u00e9s quan <\/span><span style=\"font-family: Courier New, monospace\">he de comprar<\/span> <span style=\"font-family: Courier New, monospace\">alguna cosa, <\/span><span style=\"font-family: Courier New, monospace\">quan <\/span><span style=\"font-family: Courier New, monospace\">escolto alg\u00fa o he de <\/span><span style=\"font-family: Courier New, monospace\">fer una tria una mica important<\/span><span style=\"font-family: Courier New, monospace\">. I aix\u00ed i tot, a vegades m\u2019enreden. Ens passa sovint quan comprem de rebaixes. <\/span><span style=\"font-family: Courier New, monospace\">Les rebaixes s\u00f3n les disminucions que es fan sobre el preu d\u2019un b\u00e9 o un servei, <\/span><span style=\"font-family: Courier New, monospace\">per\u00f2 les<\/span><span style=\"font-family: Courier New, monospace\"> fan sobretot per poder vendre m\u00e9s de pressa, per treure\u2019s del damunt articles que ja no preveuen <\/span><span style=\"font-family: Courier New, monospace\">poder <\/span><span style=\"font-family: Courier New, monospace\">vendre o per vendre m\u00e9s quantitat de g\u00e8nere atraient m\u00e9s gent. <\/span><span style=\"font-family: Courier New, monospace\">Reconec que, tot i no ser un gran partidari de les rebaixes, s\u00ed que les he aprofitat algunes vegades. <\/span><span style=\"font-family: Courier New, monospace\">I no sempre paguen la pena, la veritat&#8230;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: Courier New, monospace\">C<\/span><span style=\"font-family: Courier New, monospace\">omen\u00e7a un nou curs i veig un munt d\u2019ofertes revestides de xantatge. Promeses que no van enlloc i paraules que cansen despr\u00e9s d\u2019escoltar-les mil vegades. No s\u00e9 si nom\u00e9s s\u00f3c jo, per\u00f2 noto cansament i, sobretot, l\u2019avorriment del h\u00e0mster donant voltes infinites en la mateixa roda.<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Ens volen acostumar a viure sota xantatge a base de formes diverses. A vegades fan servir formes molt subtils; altres vegades molt clares, evidents, directes i sense cap mena de vergonya. En algunes ocasions fan servir directament la por i l\u2019amena\u00e7a. En altres ocasions la culpa, el sentit del deure o altres formes. 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